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Kathy Minicozzi's avatar

I am so sorry you were left out of the conversation in the group today. I often feel left out of discussions in that group, and in the past, I have been happy to leave because I felt left out and wasn't contributing anything.

The group was sorry to see you leave today, if that means anything to you. We all appreciate you very much and believe that you make a significant contribution to us. You are well-liked by us.

As for a writing career, I, too, don't have the talent for selling myself, and I, too, am gaining followers slowly. Scott Dikkers, who is a well-known humor writer here, assures me that it just takes time if I keep at it. I think the same thing applies to you. Don't be discouraged. You have a beautiful gift for words, and people are learning to appreciate it.

🥰

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Henrik Hageland's avatar

Thank You Kathy - I really means a lot to me to hear. Also about writing career - I think I will just keep writing, and as I said - maybe someone will read, maybe not. Time will tell.

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Brandon Ellrich's avatar

I've had feelings like that sometimes in the group. They will sometimes talk about things that either don't interest me or I have no knowledge of.

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Kathy Minicozzi's avatar

It's good to know I am not alone! 😊

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Elle Becker's avatar

Henrik, my deepest apologies. I'm the one that was excited trying to figure out a way to come, and I started the conversation. I thought, for some odd reason, that you were coming too...

Maybe I just wished it!

It's always okay to either say something, or send me a private message on zoom. All of us adore you. We'll change the subject. Please realize though that we do get goofy a lot and I like that. But I'll make extra sure you don't feel excluded from the conversation. Hope to see you next week!

I LOVE love love the tattoo, btw.

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Henrik Hageland's avatar

I would really love to be able to join you in Maine, but after googling my name and your president, I am now sure, that that won't be possible. Well - it wasn't possible anyhow, as I still sit around here in the big expensive house of mine, which eats at least 1000 $ every months of money I do not have. That's life after death....

I love the group - I just had absolutely nothing to listen or talk about regarding the meeting.

I had planned to talk about our presence in new social media channels like bluesky or threads yesterday - but never mind, we could take that next week?

I accept naturally your apologies - don't worry ´ bout me

Yeah, my tattoo has turned out great after designing it myself. Did you see my second tattoo? #

Maybe you will the next time on camera.

Hugs from DK - Sir Henry

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Peter William Murphy's avatar

So sorry I missed this 😢

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Henrik Hageland's avatar

Ha Ha Ha... well - there wasn't much to miss - I just left

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The Sturg's avatar

I was so devastated when I realized why you left and felt so bad continuing to contribute to that conversation tonight. I wanted to kill that talk after I realized it but I could see that you had already been affected and wanted to spend your time more productively. To be fair, we stopped talking about it right after you left and shifted talk about what we were working on, how we would each improve Medium, and some changes that they could incorporate from Substack, and other various topics more related to writing. Anyway, I did get a chance to read the transcript from your full live video but wanted to make sure I specifically commented on this part. If you ever feel like that in the future, none of us would be mad if you wanted to change the subject or get us back on track. I know how often these meetings can feel like they get veered off-course.

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Henrik Hageland's avatar

It's all right Gerald - Most meetings in the group veer off course, but when it turns into something materialistic as going to the meeting in Maine, where I cannot join, I have no chance to get any inspiration.

Maybe we should make a channel in the discord group to handle questions about going and accommodations etc....

Don't feel devastated - I don't.

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